Best for Last

I saved the best for last today. At my 86th hour of work this week, I walked into Ms Js room, flopped down in a chair by her bed, and just listened...

I expected to coast through today. But then I had a ridiculous number of admission overnight, and realized that my plan for finishing work by noon, or even two was fucked, and I was pissed. Couldn't even fake a smile, so I saw intoxicated and demented patients first. They wouldn't know I was in a foul mood, or, at the very least, wouldn't remember.

A few hours later I peeked in on Ms J. "I'll be by in a few hours, just wanted to make sure you were doing ok." I had already looked at her labs, talked to the night nurse when I got to work and knew that she was doing well, but I knew she would expect to see me in the morning. I hoped I had been able to pull off a half-decent fake smile for her...

I went about the day. And then settled myself in Ms. Js room. For a hour I just listened. This woman is amazing. Hearing her stories, listening to her talk about raising her children; I sit there and look at her and get caught up in her life. I believe her. She isn't going to die. But then I am snapped back to reality, and I know that best case is she makes it til Thanksgiving-Christmas would be a miracle. Does she really know that. Just when I think she doesn't she says something like, "when I'm gone.." or how easily and comfortable she uses the C work. I am drawn to this woman and her family, and I don't know entirely why. Or maybe I do...

It has been a long week. I think it has been rewarding. I think I have probably learned a fair bit. But I am spiteful of the long hours I have had to work. Tomorrow is my day off. And then I work 8 days in a row... what the hell?

Grumpy Point

I've hit that grumpy point of the month. I hit 40 hours today. I have 4 more days to go til a day off, which includes being on call on saturday. I worked 86 hours last week. I'm annoyed with a few of the residents I am working with, but then again am working with a few (sadly fewer) stellar residents. I'm just tired. Coffee doesn't even make me feel happy right now, and it barely gives me the buzz I need to keep moving along.

Blah.
B

Palliative week

Mrs O died last night at midnight. That pretty much summarizes the week.

It was a long, grueling week, but probably one of the most rewarding weeks thus far. This week was essentially a learning experience in palliative medicine. I had one patient go home with home hospice. Took another person off of supportive care and started comfort measures (meaning controlling pain, taking them off of the ventilator, stopping dialysis and medical care), and then the bombshell was making Mrs O comfort measures yesterday. I spent hours with these families each day, and it was such a privilege to watch them go through the process of accepting the terminality of their family members... I realized, in the process, that a few of the docs I work with, suck at helping families in this process.

I'm starting a 7 day stretch, have one day off then have a 9 day stretch..

Catskills

Friday morning, Mrs O asked me what I was going to do with my weekend off. I wanted her to know I wouldn't see her again until Monday. "I hope you are doing something enjoyable." To me, sleeping all weekend sounded enjoyable. Sure, I had been planning on going for an overnight backpack trip on Saturday. My 2 day trip was squashed due to a work retreat on friday evening. But on Friday, I was wiped out. The thought of packing my bag, and hiking seemed like too much work. Maybe a day trip instead. And looking at Mrs O, I felt this urge to enjoy myself this weekend. No responsibility. No Errands. This is my golden weekend, damn right it should be enjoyable. Almost exactly a week ago at this time, the medicine service was asked to provide care for Mrs O. Her attending is an oncologist, and she was unwell, and wanted the residents to cover her, meaning we would coordinate her medical care at all hours. After an hour trying to sort through her complex medical history, talking to her family (Mrs O was barely conscious then), I explained that I expected Mrs O would end up in the ICU, on a ventilator, and that I wasn't sure how this would play out. I re-visited the expectations for medical care, which were to "do everything possible." The oncologist had been trying to get the patient and family to consider Do Not Resuscitate and I wasn't going to get them to change their mind at this moment. I thought it our care was bordering on frivolous that night. I was pessimistic, at best. 2 hours later I transferred her to the intermediate level ICU, aggressively treated her issues. And on Friday (she is back on the regular ward, and doing well, albeit with still undiagnosed/pressing medical issues), when she told me to "do something enjoyable," it dawned on me that she was living on borrowed time. How could I even fathom letting a free weekend pass without getting into the mountains and going for an overnight trip. In 30 years, I'm not going to regret sitting around doing nothing on free weekends, but I will regret not making use of free time to get out and enjoy life. This is the view from my tent last night. I sat here and pondered many things, but kept thinking about Mrs O. She may not be alive in 1 month, or 6 months, or 1 year, but she has been able to enjoy 7 more days of life, so far, with her family. And today, she is celebrating mother's day.

So often it seems we press code status with families. There's a slight sense of relief when complicated, or sick patients are Do Not Resuscitate. But maybe sometimes we're wrong, and not really wanting to face the challenge, the fight to help keep people live. I have thought long and hard about my own wishes if I became unwell, and it's not even clear cut to me, and I think I have good insight into the issues.

I think I'm rambling at this point.

A weekend away, hiking in gorgeous mountains, driving through small mountain towns, it's been an enjoyable weekend.

Cheers,

Brian

Med Wards

Week one: not too bad of a week. Pretty long hours though, just taking some extra time to get acquainted to my new patients earlier in the week. Kind of nice to be taking care of adults, in the sense that the medicine is a bit more complex. After my month in the emergency department, medicine is beginning to feel a bit more comfortable.

Not much going on aside from work. I am off next weekend, and am thinking about making a overnight or tonight backpacking trip to the Catskills. Would it be nice to explore some real mountains. Cheers!
Brian